Monday, April 6, 2009

I'm going to take a break from posting pictures and let my thoughts flow......what I went through last year was awful and I don't wish it on anyone, however, I'm so much happier for it. Let me explain: my marriage had its ups and down like everyone elses. Marriage is hard. Everyone who is married knows that and the grass is never greener on the otherside...except for some circumstances. I feel I fall in that special group. My marriage was really hard...I don't know what I should say, how much of it I should post but I do know I tried everything in my power to make it work. When you give and give and give there comes a point when you break. I'm not saying it was all his fault at all. I wasn't perfect and I own what i did wrong. Sometimes two people are so different they clash. We both wanted different things in our life. He made some choices that i couldn't control and the decision was made and we got a divorce. Yes, I went through the gammet of emotions that a person should go through when a tramatic event occurs in their life however when you have the gospel and incredible support; it makes it easier. Plus meeting new people, having and making wonderful friends helps ALOT. I'M HAPPY and I owe it to someone special who understands and loves me. you know who you are :) to be cont......

8 comments:

andria and fam said...

I'm SO glad you're doing well!! I think about you often and hope that things are looking up for your family. It is a hard thing to go through but keep at it a day at a time...Remember "life is tough, but I am tougher"! And that you are. :)

BrImHaLl FaMiLy said...

You are an inspiration to me! You look and sound so good! My sister in-law is going through some crap right now! If you don't mind can I refer her to your blog? Maybe it will give her hope!
Tell your kids I said hi!

The Brown Family said...

So glad you are doing awesome Rach! Isn't it amazing how through trials we grow and can even become a better person through it? You have definitley done that! Let's get together sometime soon. I would love to catch up over lunch or something. Keep in touch!

Amber and Co. said...

What can I say? You are amazing and wonderful and I'm so happy to get to see you often. I'm so glad that you are on the mend and that life is going your way. You def. deserve every bit of happiness you find!
Love ya!
Amber

Jod Jas Curtis said...

You are awesome Rach! I was bummed I didn't get to see you while I was in AZ, hopefully in June we can get together again :) Can't wait to hear about your "special someone" You are so sweet & love ya so much!

KP Photography said...

Good for you girl!! I'm sl glad you posted a bit about your D. I need to do something similar. I'm glad you've found someone. Wish I could do the same! I'm so happy for you though. You deserve it!! I love you! SO glad we're friends!!

Martineau Family said...

Rach...its great to read your post. I feel like such an awful friend. We have got to get together and hang out!! I am so glad things are going good for you now. Love ya!!

Natalie said...

SO glad to see you updated your blog girl! We miss you, but glad we can catch a peak at your life from blogging.

Was there a pic of someone special within these past posts? I have to admit I don't know all of your family, but I could swear there's a pic of you and someone special randomly thrown in there! Just wondering.

love ya girl-nat